>>>I never posted a question on foxite, only answers :) And even then I tried to re-phrase. Didn't work, though.
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>>Troublemaker!
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>Somehow whatever I try to do even with the best intentions turned against me. And I don't know how to overcome it.
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>Say, yesterday's example with Tore...
>Or other more bitter examples of the same pattern...

You can't please everybody. All you can do is roll with it.

In Tore's case It looks like a minor misunderstanding that got twisted out of shape.