>>>Dragan,
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>>>Sorry for your loss. But I am wondering, would you write the same message if the two kids were white? Would you stop giving to white charities if the kids were white? You see what I am saying?
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>>It's that I feel betrayed, I guess. We wanted to be part of the neighborhood, not just a family of foreigners, and this is putting a barricade between us in a way. This is probably my bubble bursting.
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>Dragan - I thought better of you. That a couple of kids misbehaved is no reason for you to turn against _all_ your neighbors.
>
>Tamar

OTOH its easy to judge people when not living in their circumstances.

Lots of liberal commentators often give people a hard time for being racist when they themselves live in nice aflluent areas where they don't have to deal with the day to day life problems of the poorer areas.