>>At that point, I wouldn't be there to care. They can do whatever they want :).
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>Agreed. I know funerals are for the living, not the dead, but as far as I'm concerned they can put me in a bag and chuck me in the river.
I'm thinking of either a parabolic mirror solar cremation or being buried under a new tree (preferably mulberry) or whatever is ecologically logical and pretty much no-cost. Funerals are for the living, so wasting money on the dead is, well, just a waste. Dead should be remembered, not decorated.