>Please, just stop posting now, you're going around in circles and I have a dark cupboard that needs standing in.

Derek

Way you asked your original question is what made Agnes start explaining you things at very basic level
thinking that you are VFP begginer. (Impression I got as well)

Then you turned neurotic, and ended up being very rude to someone who actually tried to help you.
(Lady on top of it.)

Everybody can have bad day, but this is way overboard. I believe you owe her an apology.