>>>>Jay,
>>>>I don't think there's any point in arguing. Some people have a sense of entitlement that I will never understand. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
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>>>You put a label on the person calling that person a twit. Why you're surprised that person may not like that label ?
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>>So, call it something nicer. Like "Person who I would prefer not to communicate with" - is that better? I don't care what it's called, just that it exists. You can call it the "I love butterflies" filter for all I care. Is that your issue with it?
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>I think it's the matter of low self-esteem when people can't take a little rejection. If fact my self-esteem is so high that as soon as I retire from programming I plan to put Sergey, Cetin, and Borislav in my twit {g}.

When there is no reasonable explanation provided and you considered someone to be your friend, would you still joke about it? Regardless of self-esteem it's going to hurt.