Is the other person actually making you beg? Or have you taken that responsibility on yourself?

>Charles,
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>I understand it but at the same time I don't understand another thing.
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>I someone asks me to speak with him/her and don't ignore, I would communicate with that person and I would not make the other person beg for my attention.
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>>>I don't know have you ever wanted something with your whole soul and heart? I don't think I ever wanted something that much before. But I can tell now that there is one thing in life I want and I'm ready for any sacrifice, anything for this.
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>>Naomi, you really have to understand it is exactly this level of intensity that probably is the cause of your being ignored.
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>>I don't know if you ever had a relationship in "real life" (face-to-face - no computers ) with this person but if you haven't this kind of obsession is seen by a lot of people as creepy - the kind of thing that is seen as "stalking" and is probably the reason it all started to begin with.
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>>It is a question of perspective. To want a reply from somebody on-line "with your whole soul and heart" and having "never wanted something so much before" will cause most people to get as far away from communicating with you as possible.
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>>In real-life obsessive unwanted attention leads to restraining orders from a court. You need to focus more on real-life.
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>>I want this person to talk with me, to not ignore me this way. It just makes you want it more and more just to get a word back.
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>>>I've been thinking about it and I can tell: when two persons communicate, they are equal. When someone is ignored and knows about it, they are not, the one who is ignoring is up hign and the one who is ignored is deep down... I'm feeling this way for 2 years, trying to change this and still failing...