>>The real problem is that some people simply cannot accept that they are responsible for their own actions, reactions, and state of mind, and they find themselves desperately looking for somebody else to blame.
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>Alan,
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>This is not the case here.

Just what is the case then? That you feel slighted because someone doesn't want to have any interaction with you? So what? Stop talking about it and let it go. You and Peter are the only ones who care that the filter exists. Well, maybe Walter, but even he agreed it does him no harm to have it there and it does benefit others. You really have some issues if you live in such a dark place that this matters. And after two years?! What a friggin' waste of time.