>>Ok, then. Let me ask straight out. How long is long enough? How much moping over it is enough moping? Is there never a point where the person (Naomi, if you like) should simply say, "Ok, I guess that's how it's going to be", and just get on with life?
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>Let's see what the future brings if we all do this: Each time a member here 'complains' about someone, we first and for all show some empathy and we might even agree this someone behaves like a b#$%&d. And only afterwards we give some mild advice. We might assume there's a lack in the set of skills, a partially wrong knowledge of the real world and/or a misconception about what's just and unjust.
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>Maybe we'd conclude eventually that Naomi too 'moped' less and less overtime.


The hell with empathy about somebody twitting somebody else. This is an absolutely ridiculous statement. If you want to provide some kind of bogus psychiatric care to the ultra-needy here, then please take it somewhere else. Form you own forums if you want. the purpose of this forum is not to serve as a Dr. Phil show, its to provide technical support for programming products.