>>>>>>Fair is only in your perception. If you go through life expecting everything to be fair you are really in for disappointment. Maybe that's some of the issue; you are not able to just accept stuff. Everything has to be resolved, tied up, nice, all about you, pretty in pink, whatever. Guess what Virginia? It's not.
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>>>>>If you would have a friend who would stop talking with you without any reason, how quick you would get over this and got on with your life?
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>>>>A couple months. I might think about it once in awhile, but that would be it. And that's a real person, who I've actually met, had good times with, shared stuff with (face-to-face). Someone from here? About a day. At the most.
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>>>Ok. Good for you.
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>>Reason always exists, and, accordingly, i.e. as soon as you accept it (that the reason does exist, no matter which one), it should take much less than couple months identified by Jay.
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>But of course none of us is completely ruled by reason. It just exists to different degrees in different people.

It is probably interpolation from another thread. I meant more trivial reasoning.
Getting to more complicated matters, I would say that we use, with different level of success, reasoning to rule, though some of us prefer to be ruled by a reason and the latter could be anything. The accepting/recognizing of the reason is the first step to use it for active ruling purposes, not to be ruled by it.