I really am very interested to hear where you'd find it better to live than the US.Depends how you define "better". If you look at the Mercer analysis of international cities focusing on quality of life measures such as political, social, economic, health, education, recreation, public services and housing, the highest entry for the US is Honolulu at #28.
The reality is that if you have money and/or a high social status, you can have a good quality of life just about anywhere in the First World.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1