>For lots of reasons, but particularly if you have children, I think you will gain a lot of insight from this book:
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>Talent Is Overrated: What Really Separates World-Class Performers from Everybody Else by Geoff Colvin
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>http://tinyurl.com/befdnx
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>Unlike what most of us believe, that talent is something we either have or not, it turns out that talent can actually be learned and developed, which will come as a surprise to many I'm sure. The author clearly explains and shows with extensive relevant research how it can be achieved and, amazingly, by most anyone. But the price for becoming truly talented, whether in sport, business, or any other field, is a high one.

I prefer the distinction often made by those discussing sports and athletes i.e. between "gift" and "talent". I haven't read the title you're referring to, but many authors conflate these two and their arguments tend to be muddy as a result.