>>If I am reading you correctly, that you have a gay son, then that does alter my perception of you, yes. If there is a God, this must be one of His little pranks. By your own words you still consider it abnormal, make gay jokes, and say you wouldn't tolerate it in your home. (That would be his home, too, wouldn't it?) And repeat that homosexuals are not entitled to marriage. I'm not going to go on arguing with you, I just find your position even more curious now.
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>In my home, I'm the dictator. I would not let my unmarried daughter have a friend over for the night for a fling any more than I'd let my son do the same. It's not his home, its mine! I've been divorced for 10 years now, and while my sons were staying with me last summer, I had noone over to the apartment while they were here. It works both ways in my mind. Uncomfortability goes both ways....

I do agree with that up to a point. Just be careful with that dictatorship, especially if your kids have no say in the matter. It will strain your relationship with them. I speak from experience when I say kids who are locked down tight run away as fast as they can when they get the chance. Personally I want to know my daughters until I am a very old man.