Good thing you had a girl! If you had a boy, you'd be spiking his hair!
I saw a little kid in a restaurant yesterday ... he was probably not quite 2 yet and his parents had spiked his hair. Silliest thing I ever saw. 2 is way too young for that., I agree.
Gwen will decide on Katy's hair, I would have decided had it been a boy. Had it been a boy, he would have had a normal Haley Joel Osment-style haircut (Haley when he was a little kid, not that pot-smoking hippie you see now)....nothing crazy, but nothing dorky that other kids would have laughed at.