>The user can also set an option to ask them to save. Default is Don't Ask.

I assume the option to not display a confirmation message is called Don't Tell? :)

>However, there are some things to be said for familiarity.

Absolutely. But only, I would say, if other things are equal. That's what Cooper means by his "beating" metaphor. :)

>That's why I try to implement Windows standards in my applications.

Agreed again. One of my biggest peeves about VFP, in fact, is that it doesn't use Windows controls and there are slight but annoying differences between VFP apps and all others.