Visiting deathly ill relatives is not commendable, it is the right thing to do given the circumstances.

Actually, Andy's mother is not ill - she is in remarkably good shape for someone who is 92 <s>. She is starting to have a little trouble walking, but refuses to use a walker because "those things are for old people" <g>. And her short term memory is totally gone. It is the most uncanny thing - she will tell us a story in enormous detail and then a few minutes later it's as if someone has hit the rewind button on a tape recorder because she tells us the exact same story again using exactly the same words!

Heck, I hope that I'm in as good shape as she is if I make it to 92.