>He's not "legally" my husband (we're not married, but I don't actually know what the common-law-marriage laws are, they vary by state) but we've been together for 9 (almost 10) years, so I call him my husband anyway. <g>
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>JB has been my crew-mate since 2003 - does that make him my husband as well? :)

Only if you're willing to be the wife, LOL.