>And the destruction of the family as we knew it is also often due to forced relocation. If one of a pair gets a chance to get promoted (or to keep the job) by moving to another city, most of the time there wasn't a job for the spouse, or not one that would mean a smart career move. Some of it was probably make work. And sometimes the value of second income was doubtful, because the cost of child care would eat a sizable chunk of it.
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>So it's as much the women's fault as Milo[s caron]evi[c acute]'s staying in power was my fault.

I dunno about above, and I am sure it is not yours;
but Milosevic staying in power for so long IS to some extent womens fault ! {g}

Back in early 90ies, quiet big %age of our soap opera audiences were either madly inlove, or otherwise mesmerised with
the b****rd !!. If he was not a politician - he would have been fantastic for the role of Carrington in 'Dynasty' ! {lol}