>>>I received an email from Tamar saying her mother died early this morning. She asked me to say something on the UT.
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>>>Apparently it was pretty rough at the end. Tamar said the other day she thought it would be a relief when the time came. I hope that is the case.
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>>Thanks, Mike. A friend of mine went through this, and at the funeral, she said she was relieved that finally her mother looked to be at peace. All my best to Tamar.
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>It is normal for care givers to feel relief after a person passes on and then a feeling of guilt arrives because feeling relief seems wrong at this time, but it isn't.

Of course it isn't. I know you went through this yourself with Helen.