Can you please explain why you think this statement is so nasty?

Oh, give Mike a break, nothing wrong with meeting chicks on the internet. :)

Actually, I generally agree, you (the royal "you") are the only one who can save yourself. Now, I also believe another person can buy you some time, can steer you in the right direction,can help you , can even inspire you....but you're right, in the end, it's up to the person themselves.