>>>>>>Hi everybody,
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>>>>>>I have a laptop with internal WebCam. However, I'm not sure what do I need in order to use it. Say, can I make a photo using it? If yes, how?
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>>>>>>Thanks in advance.
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>>>>>You may as well hear this directly from me as hear it from immature jackasses like Kevin Goff.
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>>>>>Over a number of years, about seven, I was involved in an online relationship with a woman in northern California. We talked all the time -- phone, email, IM -- and talked about getting married. As these things will, it got frisky at times. On both sides. At one point I sent her a naked picture of myself. When she grew bored with me, as she seems to grow bored with all men, she decided to send the picture to Kevin. She has no affiliation with the UT, just knows I hang out here. He has been holding the picture over my head ever since.
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>>>>>It was an act of indiscretion to have sent the picture. I really did think we were going to spend the rest of our lives together so didn't think much of it. Bad decision, I guess. Tell you what, though. I'll take my role in this steamy little affair over Kevin's any day. A classic schoolyard bully.
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>>>>Thanks for the good laugh
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>>>I wish it seemed funnier to me.
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>>Well, you know that it is always funny when it happens to others. The funny part was you sending her a picture
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>>Why posting this in the first place ? No one - except a few people knew about this. Now the story has crossed the Atlantic
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>>You have spilled the beans - pun intended
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>The story IMO is not the picture but Kevin holding it over my head, giving little hints here about it. I got tired of his game, all the private messages threatening to reveal it (which he probably did anyway), and decided it was better to have it out in the open. Now he's got no hold on me.
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>Besides, if that was the most embarrassing thing I ever do in my life I will have lived OK.


I don't think he ever had a hold on you - I don't think he would ever have exposed it
The only hold he ever had is you believing he would