>>I am really envious of you and Gary for keeping the spark alive in your marriage. Nice going.
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>Maybe not actually being married is the trick? <g>
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>Nah, probably has nothing to do with it ... finding the right person is all it takes. We've been together for more than 10 years now, so we're "married" for all practical purposes. =0)
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I don't think I knew that. This shows again that a couple can be committed without being married.