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Mike Beane Has Been Banned?
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15/06/2010 12:10:48
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>FWIW, Tamar, Tore and I received this email today :
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>"You are the three people I talked with in email yesterday after impulsively asking Michel to boot me from the UT. (Which he did without comment, LOL). I am thinking that was not one of my wiser moves. Isolating oneself is a classic symptom of addiction, and not healthy at all. If one of you would ask Michel to reinstate me I would be grateful. I promise to behave myself.
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>The first thing I should do is twit (name redacted by obvious). It's on me for letting that putz get under my skin but he has.
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>Here's hoping you are all well. I am much better than yesterday.
>
>Mike"
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>Michel, if you read this, please reinstate Mike.
>

I hope is is not reinstated. First, he committed a blatant violation of this site's terms, Second, a fundamental of recovery is realizing that you will have to change your playground and your playmates to be successful. Mike has proven time and again that he needs to be doing something else besides hanging out here. While I agree that isolation is not helpful, it may be necessary for a time (with proper support from other recovering folks) to start making the changes in his life that he needs to get the monkey off his back.

We can't "recover" him, but we certainly shouldn't be enabling either.
Phil Thomas
http://phillipdthomas.com

Never let your energy or enthusiasm be dampened by the discouragements that must inevitably come.....
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