Your bar-room analogy is proof that this debate is likely pointless.
My question to you was why you chose to condemn the United States for the war against Islamic terrorism, but you've never condemned your own country for expanding attacks on Germany (to cities like Mannheim) that surely resulted in killing innocent German citizens and children. It is a rhetorical question that illustrates the complexity of fighting an enemy that is not associated with a specific nation-state...as well as a question that demonstrates your inconsistency...but I was still curious to hear your answer.