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>>"girly?"
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>I think Victor is a fairly big guy but would love to be there to watch you smack him ;-)

ha...hardly. 6foot but like 150lbs...haha

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>My favorite sister in law, Barb, was (is) a lot like you. She was even more unobtainable, being long term happily married in addition to the obvious. One of her favorite statements was "I feel like smacking someone and it might be you."
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>Happy marriages, who can explain them? They must be either magic or a gift from God, one or the other. I'm not sure hard work is an explanation, although that is surely part of it. Barb and Joe have as good a marriage as I have seen. They have been married 35 years. They met working at the local K Mart as late teens, fell in love, and have been happily married ever since. I sometimes joked with Barb that she married as a baby and she would say "Yep!" Joe is just as amiable and even funnier. Maybe that's part of it -- let life be a funny game and it all falls into place. They are also both devout Catholics.