>Some people are just enough alike to rub each other the wrong way
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>You and I have absolutely zero in common.

Keep saying that, Kevin, maybe you'll convince yourself. I hope I'm wrong, I sincerely do. You have a lot going for you. What many addicts have in common is they can hold it together until about age 40 and then the wheels start falling off. So watch out for the trap door, as the great American musician T-Bone Burnett wrote.

Zero in common? Try these on for size.

Smart? Check.

In love with our daughters? Check.

Technically gifted? Check.

Good at writing and perhaps inordinately proud of it? Check.

Sports fans? Check.

Passionate and not afraid to wade into the fray? Check.

A lot more alike than you might like to admit. I am glad you are doing better than I am.