>We had lunch in what was supposed to be a quaint little bistro on Tuesday - the waiter we initially got (I think it was a waiter rather than waitress) - looked like a walking junkyard. Nose, lip, cheek, ears - God knows where else. And tattoos of course.
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>We moved to a different section of the place to get a different waiter. If that offended the original one, too bad.

It's your money and your choice of where you spend it. I go to a different place if I'm annoyed by the music, or if they turn on the sound on the TV (with sports or ads or whatever).