>I understand it has raised quite the s--tstorm in the mommysphere < g >

My kids are all grown, so from that standpoint, I don't really care. But, I came across this because my ex-husband sent the link to our 3 kids and his 3 step-kids (3 of which are parents themselves). Maybe he wants them to raise their kids differently than they were raised. Or maybe he feels guilty about the mistakes *he* made in raising them (don't get me started ...)!! <g>

~~Bonnie