>I despaired on technology keeping up with my personal needs long ago, so implemented UDFs that presaged the Twit Filter, Caller ID, Do not call lists and Spam filters. > >I found that indifference to the imprecations of others, bemusement at the idea that somehow a ringing device demanded my immediate attention ( when the ringer can be so easily turned off ) and the ability to skim and dismiss large amounts of text without even really thinking much about it could be nicely meshed with my God-given attention deficit disorder to allow me the illusion of privacy. > >( ha ha, Bonnie, made you look ... )