>>>>Too many players (sometimes including wives) just never seem to grow up. Class is not something that can be learned.
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>>>No-one is born with class - the ONLY way to get any is to learn it.
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>>I disagree. You can learn to fake it, but class is something you have, not something you learn. Or, maybe let me put it differently. Maybe you can learn it, but only over a lifetime of growing up with and into it. You can't learn it in a few years of trying it on to see if it fits.
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>>Like the man said, if you can learn to fake sincerity, you've got it made.
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>I am with Al. If you have spent any amount of time around little kids, you know they have some pretty beastly urges. Greed, stealing, hitting, meanness to other kids, to name a few. Finer habits and traits have to be taught to them IMO.

But they learn it over a lifetime of being around role models, and at some point will have to choose the role model they want to follow. How does a kid decide which role model to emulate? Those with class will choose to show class and those without will choose otherwise. People who have no class at the age of 25 are unlikely to become classy later on. Pygmalion was fiction.