>>>>Thanks, Tamar. I actually came by that because I grew up with an older brother who refused to make a decision and then was not happy with the decision that was made. Thankfully, his wife finished breaking him of that behavior.
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>>>makes one wonder how he arrived in married state at all...
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>>He couldn't decide whether to run away from the wedding or not.
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>running at a shotgun wedding might evoke reflexes resulting in flying lead...

...which can result in acute lead poisoning in some persons.