In comment to your tag line, I must say as someone who talked with both of you on the phone about a possible work gig I don't think think you should be making even offhand jokes about your wife. She was smart and classy all the way. Guys, sometimes we don't appreciate how lucky we are ;-)

Sorry, I guess that's preachy, but I guess I am sentimental about family these days.

Now here is a lighter comment. A joke, actually, which I generally avoid. Two Catholic priests play hooky one Sunday and hit the golf course. They know they are committing a sin but it's a gorgeous day and it seems like every shot is going in. As they walk to the 18th green the older priest says, "This is grand, isn't it?" "Yes, it is," the younger priest says. "But think about it. Who can we possibly tell?"