Let's not turn this into personal bombs.

Let's see now - did you just tell me I am saying you may lack the heart? So I suggest that you take your own advice.

You don't have any idea what I do for others.

That is correct. Just as you have no idea what my charitable contributions are. You seem to think that just because I prefer to decide where my charitable contributions go instead of allowing the government to decide who is worthy that I have no heart...