>>>In this case I agree with you completely. She was asking for quite a lot. There was nothing mean spirited in your reply and in fact you gave her some good advice -- take it a step at a time as far as you can, and then if you are stuck on a tough point come ask. Also the importance of understanding the fundamentals first.
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>>After spending all that time I decided to try something different than flexigrid. I believe it is not simple (if ever possible) to make it work the way I wanted.
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>You will probably run into the same problem with whatever Grid you choose to use, because you won't take the time to understand the basic concepts of using it.

I do understand the basic concept and the way it's constructed. In addition to playing with that sample and reading through several other samples I read the code of it itself and even corrected one minor issue. So, I have an idea of what it is.