>>Most of us are just average players who only get to win if we are dealt really good cards. {g}
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>And just like in the real card game, it's not a problem to play bad with bad cards. It takes skill to play bad with good cards.

What I find most impressive, is when children of very very bad parents (criminals/alcoholics/drug addicts/psychopaths) end up becoming decent man/woman and succeeding in life despite all odds stuck against them. Think Adam Lanza's child becoming college professor.
Perhaps only thing more difficult then rising child with disability/disorder is being a child growing up next to extremely bad parents.
If they happen, those are the biggest real life victories.