>So if people don't want to be lovey-dovey then give up?

No. I don't know how you went from A to whatever you went to there. :-) You never stop loving.

>And hey I see we have legislation against murder but I
>see it still happens.

Ah-a! Finally you see my point. :-)

>Perhaps if we just give some love and attention to the
>murderers it will just all stop -

This world will never know, will it?

However, I do know that the love of Christ has completely changed ME and MY LIFE around. From atheist to a completely changed believer. I would not have thought it possible before it happened. There is nothing in my life that hasn't been affected. And that's not to say I haven't made mistakes. Even ginormous ones. However, my heart has been changed. I have been rewired internally.

If it can happen to me, and the others to whom I have met in my walk since coming to faith in Christ, then I know it can happen to anyone, and that when it does happen the man himself is literally undone. There is no comparison.

>and if not no point in having legislation against it cause it
>doesn't work.

I did not say that. But I will say we already have plenty of legislation on the books against all manner of crime. We don't need more legislation.

>Do you understand how foolish this thought process
>of yours really is?

What you have conveyed is NOT my thought process.

But what you have conveyed here (believing that it is my thought process), yes it is very foolish.