>>>Sex is not a sin. The Lord commanded, "Be fruitful and multiply." Sex outside of lawful marriage is a sin. Fornication is sin. Unnatural sex is sin.
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>>Again - I'm not going to argue the religious aspect of this - but dude it's 2013
>>and this is planet Earth we're on. Frankly I would consider it foolish for anyone
>>to get married without having sex first.
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>God does not change over time. The enemy has introduced this thinking which changes over time to keep us from God, to distract and cater to our flesh, its draws, pulls. Our flesh is in sin and can be manipulated. God is Spirit, and He does not change. He always only leads rightly, into an eternal relationship.
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>Ultimately each man will choose for himself. God has conveyed His purpose and plan. Those who are being saved will hear His voice.
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>>This business where you try to tell people that any kind of sex outside of marriage
>>is wrong along with whatever you've determined is "unnatural sex" is probably some
>>of the worst life-advice you could possibly give to someone in this day and age.
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>Unnatural sex is by God's definition: incest, beastiality, homosexuality. All are forbidden, and for the same reasons God prescribed in creation, anything except sex between a husband and his wife.

Well I've understood for some time now that you're a bigot when it comes to homosexuals. Are you a racists too? Perhaps you think think that a black person and white person should not get married either?

>>It's almost as shameful as expecting a priest or nun who (for the most part anyway)
>>have zero experience in the field of sex to be a couples therapist on the subject.
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>If they've read and understood their Bibles, they are qualified

I don't think a book written 2,000 years ago is going to provide anyone with the required qualifications to help a young couple in year 2013 with the social problems they're going to encounter with marriage and sex. I can see how simple, basic things from a moral standpoint could be helpful - but for anything realistic - no.
So let me get this straight - you think a never-married priest or never-married nun is appropriate person to assist someone with martial and/or sexual problems? That's beyond insane. I can understand that if the married couple just wanted some "common ground" place or a "referee" to assist them - but thinking you're actually going to get some practical advice from such a person is very unwise....and is not going to help fix or improve your relationship with your significant other.