>If they hurt your feelings and if that's the feedback your are getting from people - isn't it time to wonder whether there's some truth in it ?

It may very well be, but I am wondering why I always get this attitude regardless on the complexity of the question I ask. There are plenty of people here asking various questions, some of them are really very basic. Yet I seems to get all these teachings instead of normal answer.

If someone else would ask this same question, there would be lots of good suggestions instead.