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>>The voice of experience. I agree with you completely and have tried to gently make the same point to Kevin. Sometimes I get the impression he expects Katy to be his Mini-Me, sharing his enthusiasms and dislikes. Maybe it will happen that way but IMO it would be an exceptionally docile teen/lpreteen who wants it. Part of growing up is to learn to think for yourself.
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>Neither of you know a thing about how I'm raising my kid.

Thats true and I never said I did. Without knowing you quite well personally I could have no idea. About the only thing I can be sure of is that you photograph her a lot :-)