>> I think that is misdirected at Tamar. She walks the walk.
I have nothing negative to say about Tamar. She is one of the gentlemen of the community. (Had to use masculine text because "lady" carries completely the wrong connotation and "gentlewoman" is contrived. But you know what I mean. ;-) )
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1