>>>>I relapsed. I had been doing great. Today would have been 3 months sober for me, which is considered a sobriety milestone. I didn't quite make it. There must be something self destructive in me.
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>>There's a difference between someone with a physical addiction and someone who has discipline issues with moderation.
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>There is no difference between the two, both = alcoholic...

Well, I see it differently. I think there is a distinction between physical addiction and issues of judgment/stupidity. That's not to say a person with a physical addiction can't also have horrible lapses of judgment.

There can also be psychological addiction and issues with cognitive decision making.

Don't get me wrong, none of this absolves any negative actions nor should it impact consequences.