In fact yesterday I was irritated enough by the messages from Kevin and Marcia that I was going to just disappear from the UT. I don't expect a free pass but I don't expect messages that harsh, either. Especially from Kevin. I'm pretty sure he knows I tried on a number of occasions to get him reinstated when he was banned from the UT. I guess gratitude is not in his repertoire.

The problem is that the supportive and encouraging responses just seem to have enabled you in the past. And what, exactly, does gratitude for you trying to have Kevin reinstated when he was banned? You think that since he should be grateful for your efforts on his half that he should be nice and supportive and enable you some more??!!