>All I am going to say is the 300 dollar girls make it for a reason.

The reason being the existence of a market. You are creating the demand.

Of course anyone can do one thing better than others do, if they apply themselves to it and dedicate the time. Money as an incentive divides the professionals from amateurs. Let me remind you of the origin of the word "amateur" - "one who loves it" (from latin amare, to love, through french). Amateurs are people who do something because they like it. The professionals do it because they get paid to do it. Those who pay to get it done are called customers. There are professionals who like their job, and there are also customers who like the service and consider they got their money's worth. But it's nothing more than a business transaction. All the sweet talk around it is just advertising and/or part of the service.

And no matter what she may made you believe, to her you are still the guy who can't get it for free, between equal and consenting adults. You're a customer, not a partner.