>> Like all of us, I am not getting any younger. Trust me, I would like to be in your shoes with a relatively new marriage and a young son. Just wait a few years before passing judgment.

I am going to take a guess that when Mike Cole gets older, he'll already be well established as a community leader in some software technology and every bit the respectable, faithful guy he is right now. I look at him and I see a level of honor. And dare I say he won't be telling younger people, "Wait until you get to be my age".