>Unfortunately, it was a library book and I returned it, so I don't have it here. But one process for which she showed several examples was a woman making a suggestion only to have it ignored and then a man making the same suggestion and having it adopted and the woman's original suggestion of it never recognized.

I have this happen to me all the time. I instead choose to reflect on how I conveyed my message and try to improve my soft skills. I'm definitely not saying that gender issues don't exist but I hope that people aren't to quick to blame sexism when instead it was a communication issue.

>A big theme was men seeing the world as conflict, while women see it as cooperation. (The book acknowledges that such generalizations don't apply to everyone, but cites plenty of research to support the generalizations.)
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>Tamar