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>>For sure, that's the "ability" piece of the triangle, the one we don't control at all.
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>>Tamar
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>Completely disagree.

We control what we do with our ability, but not what we start with. Some people are born with intellectual or physical or interpersonal or other kinds of advantages. Their work and opportunity determine whether they make the most of those.

FWIW, any parent of more than one kid can tell you about the kinds of differences their kids are born with.

Tamar