Except that it's not a realistic expectation. All college students can not get jobs as bartenders or strippers - heck a lot of these students are not even 21 years old. There is not enough of these jobs to go around for all the college students. ...again it's not the norm.

You don't have to be 21 to get a job as a waitress. And who says that you must go to college directly after graduating high school? What ever happened to the days when high school graduates worked for a few years while living with mom and dad in order to put away money for college? I am really getting tire of listening to all of your excuses....