>>This is why they call it a 'phobia' - irrational fear that is very unlikely to happen. I have a phobia of two beautiful young women wanting to have menage a trois with me. But deep inside I know that this is a very unlikely event. Just like it is in your case.
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>Uhm...you know, they have websites for that...
Dealing with phobias?
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