"Get over it." I don't think that counts as healing the divide. "I understand your concerns" thats the sort of phrase you may have been thinking of.

I understand his concerns. I do not understand the disgusting and combative language used in the link that he posted. Actually "get over it" does count unless you are a college student in the US who now needs a safe room in order to be protected from anything that his/her/its delicate sensibilities can not deal with ;) Sometimes, one needs to get over it and get on with life....