I misspoke - values may be part of it, but it goes deeper than that.
You projected that they should want what you want, that their actual desires are somehow not valid.
Some people like goats and chickens.

I think that poor Victor is missing the point that when we were promised life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, we were promised equal opportunity. We were not promised equal outcomes. IMHO. he believes that all children should get a trophy merely for participating.