>I misspoke - values may be part of it, but it goes deeper than that.
>You projected that they should want what you want, that their actual desires are somehow not valid.
>Some people like goats and chickens.
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>I think that poor Victor is missing the point that when we were promised life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, we were promised equal opportunity. We were not promised equal outcomes. IMHO. he believes that all children should get a trophy merely for participating.

People don't even want equal outcomes.
Each person has their own preferences, and many of us are part of groups that influence our preferences.
English professors are less likely to want goats and chickens around.
Some migrants from rural Mexico may think having property out in the country and large enough to have goats and chickens is their ideal.

Even more than that - and exactly what Dr. Carson was writing against:
The idea is that all children want to join the chess club and all children want to play football.
It is absurd on the face of it - not every person wants the same things.
Not every group wants the same things.
But it is the precise idea on which "disparate impact" rests.